My girlfriend left me. I don’t know what to do. I had never felt so miserable in my entire life. I’m sad, depressed, lonely, and I wish none of this had happened. I love her so much and I just want her back. I feel so miserable beating myself up over the breakup that I feel like I just want to die. Is there anything I can do to get my girlfriend back after she dumped me?
If this sounds all too familiar to you, then you are not alone. Many men experience these painful feelings after a breakup. But you’re a man, and it’s not supposed to bother you, right? After all, you’re supposed to be tough and in control. You’re not supposed to express emotion.
What a bunch of pork wash. Men are human too. It’s perfectly fine to feel the way you feel.
If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you must first learn to control your emotions. It’s about controlling them so they don’t control you. It’s okay to experience them, but you can’t let them control you or you’ll end up doing something drastic that will only end up driving your girlfriend away.
To clear your mind, you must first create a space between you and your girlfriend. I realize this is hard to do since all you really want is to get back together and spend time together. She needs time right now, so you better give it to her.
To keep your mind off her and your emotions in check, try removing things from your place that remind you of her. This doesn’t mean you have to throw them away or light a big fire in the middle of your living room, but just store them where you won’t see them every day. When you get back together, you can bring them back.
Then don’t isolate yourself from others. You probably feel like locking yourself in your room so no one will bother you, but this is one of the worst things you can do. Instead, go out and surround yourself with other people.
They could be friends. It could be family. It could be joining a new club or donating time to help someone less fortunate. The idea is to just get out of the house and interact with people so you don’t feel so overwhelmed by depression.
Once you have calmed your nerves and are in control of your emotions, be patient. Now is not the time for acts of desperation. If you need more help, you can learn how to short cut your way to getting your ex girlfriend back by following a proven step-by-step system.
