When the effort gets away from you and you feel tired, but you still realize that you have to go on and finish what you are striving to do despite feelings of weariness and laziness that can hinder the final achievement; the only way out and the way to a second wind is cold and objective persistence “like a machine”. Do this until you figure out how to overcome your worst enemies, which are feelings of tiredness and laziness. The first sentence may seem rambling, but I had to fit the gist of this article into one sentence so that the rest could be nicely explained and realistically broken down with complete purity of understanding.
Realize that your best friend is success and discipline. Realize the reality of the situation that is to be welcomed and realized and follow that reality. That is the only reality that counts. No other fantasy counts. No other fantasy works. Only reality is reality. Now, sure, this article sounds like some kind of pep talk. It is not. It is a genuine call to integrate your life with what you honestly want from life inside of you and then outside of you. In that order. You, as a conscious being with a conscience, are your own decision maker, decision setter, and your own technician. In this aspect, fear and irrational subjectivity is your worst enemy. It causes abandonment, failure and destruction if you let it. Note that I use the words “leave it”. Because since you have a conscience and a choice in all matters, if you have the intelligence and functionality to understand this article, you always have a choice to create success and make efforts on your part to create success. Because peace of mind does not come from enemies, but only from friends who are completely there for you, no matter what. That is the kind of friend that is self-made success, a friend who will not betray you except when you falter or sabotage your own efforts. In fact, you have to genuinely listen to yourself to know, determine, and achieve, in that order, what you really want, need, and achieve in a genuinely worthwhile way.
Life is made and created by coldly rational universal laws that are invariably viable and immutable. When used correctly, they create and produce warm, happy emotions and a viable reality. When misused, they create failure, frustration, and sadness. This concept in this short paragraph is the key to understanding how and why to be consistently successful in a self-created and self-constructed way.
So, sure, I’m coldly rational and honest. But my feelings while writing this article are warm and helpful, this is an example that I am talking about when writing this article. I know a writer isn’t supposed to use himself as an example while writing his own article, but if he wants first-hand proof that this tip works, it’s best to show it that way. Because honesty is how honesty does, shows and then it’s real. Because no one is free or good until they are totally honest with everyone, including themselves. This is the concept of genuine self-sacrifice, and note that I don’t mean anything altruistic or irrationally self-sacrificing, I mean a totally rational thought and act that is self-interest oriented, but encompasses compassion for others. within the total reason. I would say altruism and irrational sacrifice are “beyond me”, but I won’t, now that I understand the real, genuine and honest nature of these things. People who sacrifice what they want and love simply seek to look good to themselves and others in an immature way, and they don’t even mature themselves in a rational way. Destructively satisfying irrational emotional needs is not maturity, it is destruction and dishonesty. It is being an enemy to yourself and practicing self-hatred. Maturity and personal fulfillment is the ultimate in self-love, consistency, self-discipline, and success.
In fact, practicing understanding and loving oneself is not immature. As it is also ripe to create a great and desirable life for yourself. Doing what is genuinely best for yourself and then for everyone else is the best approach in life, because you can’t love others if you don’t love yourself first and then pay yourself back first, in that order. Rational discipline thus functions as a coldly objective universal law that does not vary. In fact, you cannot benefit anyone else or pay anyone without having what you have yourself. Self-responsibility is power, genuine power.
