Due to fears that many Chinese women marry simply for better economic status or a desire to leave their country, I decided to write this article. Not many people have the benefit and perspective that comes from living in China and dating a very broad cross-section of women here. In fact, even many years before in my own country I had a strong connection with the Chinese community and as a result I also dated many Chinese women; however, even with all my experience and understanding of Chinese culture, I still ‘couldn’t see the forest for the trees’.

First of all, let me tell you this, and it’s important for you to know: Chinese women do not express themselves in the same way that Western women would. Likewise, many signs and signals that you can interpret as a sign that the woman’s feelings are true, are simply a cultural affectation based on behavior patterns that condition them from a very young age; Basically, they are taught to behave in a particular way in order to find a husband. As adults, they don’t really know they’re doing this, much less in the case of mainland Chinese women, that there are actually women in the world who ‘don’t’ do this!

So how can we know if a Chinese woman really loves you? because I can assure you that love in Chinese culture is No a prerequisite in marriage. However, this shouldn’t be a deterrent to you, as there are an unbelievable number of Chinese women out there who are genuine, loving, and of course exceptionally attractive. Most Chinese consider love as an action, as if they do some kind of loving action, then they can honestly say that they ‘love’ you (at least within the Chinese culture they can, and few consider this to be an action). form of deception). Let’s take a look at some real signs that a Chinese woman really does have deep feelings for you.

One thing that can really stand out when you are in a relationship with a Chinese woman that can show you that her feelings are deeper than normal is if she starts showing concern for your health. In Chinese culture, a Chinese woman should openly show concern for the physical health of her husband or boyfriend, even going so far as to care for him when he’s sick (and I don’t mean just buy him a box of Alka-Seltzer). If, even in the initial stages of courtship, she shows concern for your health verbally or otherwise, then she may be trying to show you that her feelings run deeper than usual. Take note of this.

Another big sign that your Chinese girlfriend or potential girlfriends feelings are true, and that she is possibly deeply in love with you, is jealousy. Western women for the most part keep their cool when they’re jealous, but most Chinese women just can’t and don’t see the point in doing so. Repressing the emotion of jealousy to any degree is generally associated with many native English-speaking countries; however, it is not part of the Chinese national character. Every time she sees flashes of jealousy in her partner, then she knows she’s hooked!