Technically, taking care of children should be easy because at one point in our lives we have been children and we must be aware of what children want. Unfortunately, that is not the case. Parenting is a mystery even in today’s advanced scientific knowledge. In fact, even the people we consider to be great parents can have their own issues and problems when it comes to caring for their children. There is no exact science to good parenting, although the science could provide clues driven by the nurture vs. nature argument.

You develop your own parenting styles and methods.
Once the child is delivered to the outside world from the mother’s womb, parenting begins. The role of parents is crucial and this can be affected by pressures between parents, as well as outside influences such as parents, friends and others. You take cues from all the experiences you had and develop your own methods. It’s easy for others to make judgments about another’s parenting skills, but one has to recognize that each parent will have a different field of expertise and will have different perceptions of what parenting tips to use in raising their children.

patience and understanding
As a parent, you can’t just blow up and get mad. In fact, you don’t like to get angry at work either, and therefore your children don’t deserve to be the sponge that soaks up the problems you experience. Also, if you do make mistakes, you need to be rational with how you approach the child. Thinking before you speak or act can prevent unnecessary use of violence or harsh words. As they get older, you become more aware of their changing needs and therefore the way you discipline them must adapt to their needs. Parenting is an evolutionary thing.

You can’t love too much.
Love should always be there. Too much love will not harm your child. However, it is how you profess your love that will be judged. Don’t spoil them with too many material things. Make him appreciate simple gestures like a hug, a kiss, a pat on the back, or a few words of thanks. Make them feel love and let it resonate with what you do. Material things are great, but they have to have a rhythm. It doesn’t condition the child to appreciate you only when you give him things. This will give them a false idea of ​​what parenting should be. Balance it with love and affection, perhaps through a simple phone call or a heart-to-heart pep talk. Even having a parent-child bonding time is a great way to show your appreciation.