“I used to have good sex with my wife 3 times a week. Now, I consider myself lucky if we can do it once every fortnight. In fact, she would rather masturbate than have sex with me.” Is she facing a problem similar to the one described above? Well, you are not alone. Many married men are just as frustrated. You may have had great sex with his wife in the past, but the honeymoon period doesn’t last. Life gets in the way and your wife may find sex a chore instead of something she enjoys.
Does your wife prefer her sex toys to you?
Do you know why your wife is no longer interested in sex? This is something you have to figure out if you want to solve the problem. I notice that in some relationships, women would rather masturbate using sex toys than have sex with their husbands. This can be a very serious problem. The fact that a woman masturbates shows that she has sexual needs and desires. However, if she chooses to satisfy her sexual needs with sex toys instead of her husband, something is wrong. It is a well known fact that lack of sex can lead to marriage breakdown. Although lack of sex may not be the number one reason for divorce, it’s important to fix the problem before it gets out of hand.
your wife has no fun in bed
There are many valid reasons why a woman does not want to have sex with her husband. Being too tired is definitely a valid reason. Maybe she is the one who does all the housework and takes care of the kids. If that’s the case, helping your wife with the housework and taking care of the kids will help you score some points. Who knows? It can lead to a great night again. But what if she’s done all those things and his wife isn’t willing to do it with you yet?
Most of the time, it’s because she doesn’t enjoy her sexual experience with you. In these kinds of situations, most women will tend to give their husbands a politically correct answer. It doesn’t matter what the answer is. They do it because they don’t want to hurt their husband’s feelings.
But you already know the truth. The truth is that she does not enjoy her sexual experience with you.
3 methods to revive your sex life
1. Communicate with her
Sometimes all you need to do is contact your wife. You should let your wife know that you won’t be offended even if she tells you the truth. Sure, you may not like what you hear and you may find your ego hurt. But why let your ego rule over you?
As a real man, you should do something more constructive. If you find that he is not enjoying sex with you, you should find out why and see if there are any areas you can work on. Don’t let ego get in the way.
2. Try something new
Maybe your wife is just bored. When you get a chance to have sex with your wife again, try something new. For example, if you’re always the one on top, you can suggest a change of position. Ask your wife to climb on top of you. Who knows? Your wife may love it.
3. Make him fall in love with you again!
Surely you have heard of this phrase, “women have sex for love”. As far as a woman is concerned, sex is a very emotional thing. If your wife is not enjoying sex with you, it is probably because she has fallen out of love.
So what you need to do is to make your wife fall in love with you again. Maybe he hasn’t dated his wife for a long time? Why not start courting your wife again?
