Did you wake up one day and find out that your wife left you? Decided you want her back but aren’t sure what to do? If your wife left you but you want her back, it may seem like an impossible situation. After all, how do you make someone love you again when she doesn’t even want to live with you anymore? Here’s the good news though: all is not lost. Try reverse psychology to get your wife back.
How can you use reverse psychology to get your wife back? First, start by giving her wife what she says she wants: time away from you. If he has been begging and pleading with his wife to take him back, or if he has been arguing a lot with his wife, now is the time to stop. In fact, now is the time to do the opposite and employ the no contact rule.
What is the no contact rule? It’s basically exactly what it says: you don’t contact your wife at all. If your wife says that she wants a divorce from her and she left you, show her what her life will be like with you in it. This is especially effective if you’ve been trying really hard to get your wife back but it’s not working. The moment you stop talking to her, she will start to wonder what happened. Then she will start thinking about you. Then she will not be able to resist the urge to call you or stop by to visit you. When she does, make sure you’re friendly, but don’t mention marriage. Keep everything light-hearted and drama-free.
How long should you use the no contact rule if you want to get your wife back? Ideally, he should wear it until his wife contacts him. Also, once he has contacted you, use it for a while longer to make sure you don’t beg him to take you back again.
What else can you do that involves reverse psychology to get your wife back? While you are using the no contact rule, you can also go out and have fun. Do some things that you always wanted to do but didn’t because your wife didn’t want you to. Or go out and learn something she never had time to follow before. This way, when you start talking to your wife again, she’ll see you as a new man and she’ll wonder what you’ve been up to. She will also respect you for not putting your life on hold and waiting for her to come back.
