What would you do if your girlfriend cheated on you with someone else? How would you know what signs to look for? These are rough waters and you may need a map to safely navigate through them. Here are 7 signs that can reveal a cheating girlfriend.

#1: Who do you spend time with? Your girlfriend suddenly spends more time away from you than usual. What is she doing and who is she doing it with? Your friends and her girlfriend don’t know where she is going either.

#2: What is she wearing under those clothes? Is she wearing lingerie that you have never seen before? Do you wear special underwear when you go out to meetings or parties that you are not invited to? She may be wearing it because she likes sexy lingerie, or maybe she’s wearing it to impress her secret lover.

#3: Your sex life has suddenly changed. He has much less desire to be intimate with you than before. Why? Is it because she is being satisfied by her new lover or is there another reason why her desire has decreased?

#4: Your cheating girlfriend may show signs of being bored or uninterested in your relationship. She is distant and sad when she is close to you, but happy when she is away from you. Who or what makes her happy? If not you, who meets her needs?

#5: Where did you get that jewelry or that new dress? Did she buy it herself? Did she have the money available to pay for it? If you didn’t give these things to her as a gift, then who did? Someone may be showering her with gifts to show her affection or appreciation for her.

#6: Don’t forget the repeated phone calls you can’t explain. The caller hangs up the phone when you answer. Your girlfriend also has secret phone conversations with someone you don’t know.

#7: Your cheating girlfriend starts lying about her daily activities. There are definite differences in what she says to you one day and what she says to you the next. You may find it confusing to cover her tracks from all angles. Does she have memory problems or is she trying to keep her infidelity a secret?

Remember that there is probably no sign that marks the exact place of infidelity. Rather make a picture of all the different signs and see them as a whole. There is no salvation in passing weak judgment and anger. Correctly read the signs of a cheating girlfriend and test the waters of your relationship to see if she is lukewarm or cold.