How to make you forget about your ex boyfriend? Simple, very simple and with a few lessons you will get the hang of it in no time.

Don’t be jealous, jealousy is wasted energy.

Talk to her, tell her how you feel about her always bringing up her ex boyfriend, tell her why you feel that way. Ask him how he feels about it and then tell him the truth.

Tell him that you want him to forget about his ex boyfriend and that you will do everything you can to help.

Take her to new places, remove the things that remind her of her ex, and make sure you have a good time with her. If you can’t have a good time with her, you might not want this girl after all!

You can’t go wrong with gifts, but don’t go too expensive, especially if she hasn’t gotten over her ex. Something small, a keychain that makes you think of her, seems to work very well!

Giving her a small gift will also make her think of you more often! She can’t think of her ex boyfriend if she’s too busy thinking about you!

Another option you have is to give him space, give him some time to figure out what he wants, you or him or neither of you, he may not even know it!

Those are my tips for beginners, the more you think and understand them, the better you will do.

Remember, I use this analogy a lot, recovering it is like driving on a highway. Their reactions to you are traffic signs, don’t violate their laws! If you get a negative or stop reaction, STOP! If you have the green light, go ahead! If you don’t know, ask!

It’s okay to tell him that I don’t understand if you want him to pursue you romantically or not! This makes things much easier, and if she says no, then no. Find someone who wants to be romantically chased – you can’t do something over and over again if it doesn’t work!