Sex is important! Through the act we perpetuate the species, our own genetic material, and of course, we have fun. Sex is one of the fundamental impulses of the human mind; ask any publicist or filmmaker if sex sells or not. Sex is what I like to call an exchange of sensual energy. There are different uses for this energy just as there are different inclinations and preferences regarding this energy. Using the Destiny Number, also called the Path of Life, we can learn how to better channel this energy to satisfy our sexual needs. The Destiny Number is your date of birth reduced to a single digit. For example, if it were January 1, 1980, you would proceed: 1+1+1+9+8+0 = 20 and 2 + 0 = 2.
NOTE: Sexual expression is often considered taboo and even those who are ’emancipated’ can have a number of repressions. To better illustrate the point, we will focus on the extremes. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself experiencing a reaction one way or another and keep an open mind, use these suggestions to embody your vibration sexually..
1 Destination: You can have only one mind in the search for your lover. Taken to the extreme, you can see love as a contest and your partners as conquests. Sometimes you focus too much on your own satisfaction and are too dominant, even though your partners find you exciting and willing to experiment. sexual activities: You can channel your 1 energy while on top. Make sure you experience the other end of the spectrum 1 by letting your partner ride. Ladies, try red lingerie for an exciting night.
2 Fate: You are a caring lover who seeks to please in any way you can. You like to kiss, hug and cuddle. In fact, such things are necessary as you need to feel protected and nurtured. In the extreme, you may try to plan things ahead and schedule lovemaking. You can be a little submissive and follow the energy of your partner very well. sexual activities: Show your partner your willingness to please by showing off your body through dance and self-pleasure for their eyes only. On the other hand, she playfully rebuffs advances from her lovers from time to time and learns to enjoy the power that comes with teasing. Ladies should consider shades of orange in lingerie and makeup.
3 Destination: You are an exciting and playful lover with a lot of confidence. This gives you the ability to make your partner comfortable with your playful and light-hearted attitude towards sex. You like different positions and you probably have a copy of the Kama Sutra on your shelf. You can be so uninhibited that you can make your lover blush! sexual activities: Activities that allow for sensual exploration of other body parts are ideal, such as sex with the breasts and sex with the feet or toes. Ladies can spice things up with shades of yellow.
4 Fate: Fours can struggle with emotions, especially understanding their partner’s passions. You are slow and steady and may delay making love to build up steam. Relationships are very important and you are extremely loyal and faithful. Your sex life can stall if you take an intellectual approach and rely only on tried and true methods to get turned on. sexual activities: Turn off the lights and get under the covers with your lover. Slow, smooth and long. On the other side of the coin, go crazy from time to time. Try making love outdoors. Ladies, green is the color to bring out the sensual side of her to the fullest.
5 Fate: The adventurer! You enjoy variety and excitement. Spontaneity is exciting, as are new places, new positions, and new people! You are attractive to the opposite sex and need both mental and physical stimulation. You like the ups and downs of passion and stimulation. sexual activities: You may want to eat from a broader menu that includes oral and anal fun, role play, and other ‘non-standard’ activities like spanking. Ladies must wear blue underwear and makeup.
6 Fate: Sixes are quite devoted and need to maintain balance and harmony in a relationship. When you find that special person giving in to carnal desires it is a joy. Music, candles, and lighting help create that air of romance. Long, very long foreplay sessions that include lots of kissing are to your liking. sexual activities: Being kissed and licked all over your body, as well as massages and digital exploration will do you great. Ladies should wear indigo, dark blue and black.
7 Fate: Dreamy and romantic, you secretly desire a spiritual connection with your lover. He can be a bit aloof and aloof and his analytical nature can produce an almost clinical approach to sex. However, you can potentially reach levels of intimacy with your lover that are beyond conscious comprehension. sexual activities: Explore things like Tantra and techniques that allow for a more meditative sexual experience. Get rid of that ‘clinical’ setup and use some swear words! Ladies, violets and purples will bring out your inner beast.
8 Fate: It’s okay, you’re a weirdo. cold gold Up or down you are almost totally active or passive. You may be too wrapped up in sexual power politics and wouldn’t mind being in total control of your partner. Seduce or be seduced. This attitude can alienate others, however, when you commit, you fully commit. sexual activities: Games that allow you to safely explore power relationships such as Bondage and Discipline or Role Playing Games. Learn to enjoy effusive and overly romantic displays. Ladies, the color pink will help you balance your sexual urges.
9 Fate: You can be so empathetic that you become a doormat. But, you enjoy helping your lover and often put your own needs on the back burner. But when they finally accumulate, watch out! Your passion may be volcanic and your lover may unexpectedly discover that your quiet nature has become quite demanding. And exciting. sexual activities: Anything that allows for mutual selfless pleasure, like sixty-nine or mutual masturbation. Ladies must try brown, bronze and chocolate colors in makeup and lingerie.
Copyright Jakob Steele 2007
